Planning and photographing a Brooklyn surprise marriage proposal and engagement photography session takes a lot of forethought and coordination. A million things can go wrong and even when you think every detail is in place – something invariably goes awry. Such is the case with Giancarlo’s destination NYC surprise marriage proposal to his girlfriend Maria.
Giancarlo had contacted via email from his home in Ecuador. Maria and he would be vacationing in New York City the first week of March and he wanted to know if I could discreetly photograph him popping the question. I was immediately impressed with Giancarlo’s thoughtful and romantic vision. He saw a Brooklyn engagement photograph on my Instagram feed and he was interested in using as the location. The area is called Pebble Beach and it is located in DUMBO along the East River in between the Brooklyn and Manhattan bridges. It is a magical spot. Not only does it boast views of both bridges and the Manhattan skyline but the location also coordinates well with the setting sun.
Giancarlo and I set the time for him and Maria to make their way to Pebble Beach
It seems like these directions would be easy enough. However, because the person proposing is more than likely
I arrived a couple of hours early to go over the locations. I live about two hours from Brooklyn and wanted to make sure I got there early in case of traffic. We also intended on doing an engagement session immediately following his surprise marriage proposal. I wanted some time to walk through the DUMBO area and brainstorm locations, see the light and make sure there was not something unexpected that would impede the proposal. It was also extremely cold that day. I then took the time to plan their engagement photos
Giancarlo and I also talked about the schedule in detail before his surprise marriage proposal date. Yes, we coordinated a time for him and Maria to arrive but we also had to consider what to do should he or I run be running late or they were a little early. We
Giancarlo also directed me to photos of him and Maria online so I could be familiar with their faces. I asked Giancarlo to walk his girlfriend along a certain path to the proposal location. This way I could immediately see them coming. I let Giancarlo know that I would have my camera out and would be pretending to photograph the skyline.
Everything was set and then the unexpected happened…
I had hired a second photographer for the day and we were both in place at Pebble Beach when I saw Giancarlo and Maria approaching. I assumed the role of tourist and began photographing the skyline while slowly inching my way to them. Giancarlo and I caught each other’s eye for a brief second and acknowledged each other. Giancarlo then guided Maria to a rocky part of the beach.
I inched closer and started aiming my camera towards them, Giancarlo then reached in his pocket and was about to pull out the ring when a police officer appeared and shouted over to Giancarlo and Maria to remove themselves from the rocks. The police office firmly stated that being on the rocks was not allowed. Oh, geez, I could not believe it. Giancarlo was seconds away from proposing! I quickly and quietly mentioned to the police officer that Giancarlo was about to propose. I was hoping he would make a consideration. Instead, the police officer loudly commended, “I don’t care. Remove yourselves from the rocks.” Dang.
I moved away from the police officer and continued to photograph the skyline and waited for Giancarlo to resituate himself and Maria on an unrestricted area of the beach. Giancarlo lured Maria into the spot claiming that it was a famous selfie location and begin to take photos of themselves. I moved closer and closer and then Giancarlo reached into his pocket again and popped the question without delay. I begin snapping away and then I heard Giancarlo say as he pointed to me, “This is Christine” apparently Maria saw Giancarlo texting me earlier and was a little suspicious. We then had a good laugh as I introduced myself. I then ushered them out of the cold to warm up and regroup and then into our Brooklyn engagement session.
Photographing Giancarlo and Maria’s marriage proposal and engagement photos
Second Shooter: Teresa Mansbach